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How-to checklist: Death of a spouse

Published: Saturday, Nov. 28, 1998

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1. Bear testimony of plan of salvation; encourage them to pray, study scriptures.

2. Be there, keep in touch; encourage writing in journals.

3. Be willing to listen, avoid platitudes; be patient; don't put time restriction on grief.

4. Offer specific help; don't wait to be asked for help.