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Elder Wayne S. Peterson

Published: Sunday, Oct. 7, 2001

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"In most encounters we can determine the kind of experience we are going to have by how we respond.

"In his instruction to the Nephites, the Savior taught: 'Therefore, all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them.'

"Imagine the effect it would have in the world if everyone practiced this 'Golden Rule.' "

In today's fast-paced world, people act more aggressively. Reports of road rage and insensitive behavior abound. Unfortunately, some such behavior spills into Latter-day Saint homes.

"The decisions we make and the way we behave are what ultimately shape our character."

Behavior is most significant in the home. It is where personal actions have the greatest impact. Sometimes church members are so much "at home" they forget simple civility. There are too many homes where children fear their parents, and wives fear their husbands. When there is contention at home, recognize what power has taken control and what Satan wants to accomplish.

"Our home should ideally be a refuge where each member feels safe, secure, loved and insulated from harsh criticism and contention that we so often encounter in the world.

"May we evidence our discipleship by strengthening our homes in kind and loving ways. May we remember that 'a soft answer turneth away wrath' and strive through our relationships and encounters to shape a character that will meet with the Savior's approval."