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Stirred to action in this great work

An instrument in God's hands in 'everyday terms'
Published: Saturday, Oct. 1, 2005

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Just as the sisters of the early Relief Society were stirred to action by the Prophet Joseph, "we, too, have opportunities to serve as 'instruments in the hands of God to bring about this great work,' " declared Relief Society General President Bonnie D. Parkin on Sept. 24.

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Relief Society General President Bonnie D. Parkin addresses thousands gathered in Conference Center.

"What does it mean to be an instrument in every day terms?" Sister Parkin asked during the General Relief Society Meeting in the Conference Center. "I think it means to nurture others. Joseph Smith called it acting 'according to those sympathies' that are in our hearts. I have had many sweet moments when I have felt the Lord using me as an instrument. I believe that you, too, have been guided and helped as you teach, comfort and encourage."

In her address, Sister Parkin spoke to women from all backgrounds. In addressing those who are single, she said: "Each of you is valued and needed. Each of you brings love, energy, perspective and testimony to the work. Your efforts to live close to the Spirit blesses us all because you have learned to rely on the Spirit for strength and direction."

Speaking to mothers, Sister Parkin said: "You are instruments in God's hands, with a divine responsibility to teach, to nurture your children. Little ones so need your kind and loving hand. As you put them first, He will direct you how best to serve them."

Continuing, she said: "Be there for your children. Sit on the bed and enjoy the late night talks — try to stay awake! Pray for the Lord to inspire you. Forgive often. Choose your battles. Testify frequently of Jesus Christ and His goodness and of the Restoration. And, most of all, let them know of your trust in the Lord."

And speaking to older sisters, she added, "How your wisdom, patience and experience have touched so many lives!"

In closing her remarks, Sister Parkin counseled: "There are countless ways to be instruments in God's hands. For example, be the kind of visiting teacher you've always wanted; ask a young single adult about what she likes to do rather than why she's not married; share instead of accumulate; . . . smile at a husband or child who knows they've caused frustration and heartache; . . . show by your attitude that you are finding joy in the journey."